Yes, it's true; a man on this site called me a prude because I am not the type of woman to meet for a drink and then have sex. He informed me that is what this site is all about. This is a site where people meet and have sex on the first date. He told me that I need to get with the times and I shouldn't be such a prude. What are your thoughts?
Looks like MM edited some of what I had written and removed my little joke in the end of starting a website for PRUDES. Oh well. : )
Yes, it's true; a man on this site called me a prude because I am not the type of woman to meet for a drink and then have sex. He informed me that is what this site is all about. This is a site where people meet and have sex on the first date. He told me that I need to get with the times and I shouldn't be such a prude. What are your thoughts?
Looks like MM edited some of what I had written and removed my little joke in the end of starting a website for PRUDES. Oh well. : )
Hi Queen! I love your new photo! As soon as I saw your pic I got chills and smiled from ear to ear; I've missed you! I have often thought about you over the past two years of being away. We will have to catch up! I will e-mail you soon.
I see your personality hasn't changed a bit!!! ::cracking up::
Hi Queen! I love your new photo! As soon as I saw your pic I got chills and smiled from ear to ear; I've missed you! I have often thought about you over the past two years of being away. We will have to catch up! I will e-mail you soon.
I see your personality hasn't changed a bit!!! ::cracking up::
I must be meeting the wrong men. None of them seem to be that way...
But really, I have been here for longer than I thought and now know. If they start talking sex they are looking for sex. If they want to see a photo of your rump, or your bra size they are looking for sex.
But they are not the type of men that I meet with (anymore-been there done that-do not want to go back there again)
And most of the men here are gentlemen. I know that many who hang out in the chats are preditors looking for a quickie. And I very seldom go there for that reason.
I agree with what others have said here. Who ever he is, he is wrong. Most of the men here are not here for that. In the long run we would all like to find someone we can enjoy that activity with (Please!!!) But, for most of us, we are past the time of needed a quickie. What we need comes from our hearts. We want to be with someone who can turn on our brains and hearts first. Than the physically satisfaction is SOOOOOO much better.
Oh, and I found his real photo. Funny how those that talk "that way" usually do not show their real photos.
You look familar. Do you have a new name?
I must be meeting the wrong men. None of them seem to be that way...
But really, I have been here for longer than I thought and now know. If they start talking sex they are looking for sex. If they want to see a photo of your rump, or your bra size they are looking for sex.
But they are not the type of men that I meet with (anymore-been there done that-do not want to go back there again)
And most of the men here are gentlemen. I know that many who hang out in the chats are preditors looking for a quickie. And I very seldom go there for that reason.
I agree with what others have said here. Who ever he is, he is wrong. Most of the men here are not here for that. In the long run we would all like to find someone we can enjoy that activity with (Please!!!) But, for most of us, we are past the time of needed a quickie. What we need comes from our hearts. We want to be with someone who can turn on our brains and hearts first. Than the physically satisfaction is SOOOOOO much better.
Oh, and I found his real photo. Funny how those that talk "that way" usually do not show their real photos.
Wow ... I'm impressed by your comments! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and all your support ... it's wonderful to know I am in great company!
Simone...ah, Simone! It's great to have you back! : ) Thank you! BTW, you crack me up! I love your spirit!
Ecstasy! Welcome backkkkkkkkkkkkkk ... it's official, you are now nominated as my personal "Dating Ambassador"! ::laughs:: A much appreciated THANK YOU!!!!!
Lemontree, I don't think so! You should be a Peachtree! You're so sweet, thank you!
Wow ... I'm impressed by your comments! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and all your support ... it's wonderful to know I am in great company!
Simone...ah, Simone! It's great to have you back! : ) Thank you! BTW, you crack me up! I love your spirit!
Ecstasy! Welcome backkkkkkkkkkkkkk ... it's official, you are now nominated as my personal "Dating Ambassador"! ::laughs:: A much appreciated THANK YOU!!!!!
Lemontree, I don't think so! You should be a Peachtree! You're so sweet, thank you!
I have had similar experiences. I had been a member of this site about a year and some back, decided to leave, but rejoined when I got sucked back in by fabulous blogs like the one you posted here!
You're not a prude, you're a LADY, bonafide and genuine. The kind some lucky fellow here should be snapping up *stares at all the men who've been looking at this post*
If you create a site for prudes, sign me up! *laughs*
I have had similar experiences. I had been a member of this site about a year and some back, decided to leave, but rejoined when I got sucked back in by fabulous blogs like the one you posted here!
You're not a prude, you're a LADY, bonafide and genuine. The kind some lucky fellow here should be snapping up *stares at all the men who've been looking at this post*
If you create a site for prudes, sign me up! *laughs*
Also, if that were me I probably would have said that compared to him everyone is a prude and I would have proceeded to tell him that he looks as though he should be wearing a nice pear of stilletos with a leather mini and should be standing on a street corner on the East side of town:)
and then I would have said oh, BTW your "friend" Lance called he seemed upset when I told him that I was going out with you tonight.
Con makes a good point.
Also, if that were me I probably would have said that compared to him everyone is a prude and I would have proceeded to tell him that he looks as though he should be wearing a nice pear of stilletos with a leather mini and should be standing on a street corner on the East side of town:)
and then I would have said oh, BTW your "friend" Lance called he seemed upset when I told him that I was going out with you tonight.
Conyers! Someone who truly "gets it". Thank you for taking the time to write your thoughts and I agree! There are many ways in which people try to manipulate others for their own selfish gain and everyone should be aware of this.
Hi Rick ... yes, and there is a lid for every teapot! : )
Simone, I miss you, come back! ; )
Sandradee, yes, he did but I believe it was about something more. I've learned that when people lash out at others they truly do not know it's usually because there is something greater going on in that person's life than what shows on the surface. It could also mean he had alterior motives as Conyers explained.
Conyers! Someone who truly "gets it". Thank you for taking the time to write your thoughts and I agree! There are many ways in which people try to manipulate others for their own selfish gain and everyone should be aware of this.
Hi Rick ... yes, and there is a lid for every teapot! : )
Simone, I miss you, come back! ; )
Sandradee, yes, he did but I believe it was about something more. I've learned that when people lash out at others they truly do not know it's usually because there is something greater going on in that person's life than what shows on the surface. It could also mean he had alterior motives as Conyers explained.
The more I think about it, the more I am concerned this guy may be¿one who knows that the way to identify a woman who is susceptible to manipulation is to assert something like this.....See right off if she can be controlled by him that easily.¿ Then he knows immediately, and doesn't have to waste his time on unlikely 'marks.'..........................It may not have even been about sex at all.¿ I don't know which would be scarier, but either is potentially dangerous.¿¿ Mindlessly arrogant, narcissistic and egotistical is really the UPPER end of the spectrum of flaws he could have, the more I consider it.¿¿ I would report him as a likely scammer / con artist.¿ If it turns out he's only a controlling sex deviant, you can send an apology.
The more I think about it, the more I am concerned this guy may be¿one who knows that the way to identify a woman who is susceptible to manipulation is to assert something like this.....See right off if she can be controlled by him that easily.¿ Then he knows immediately, and doesn't have to waste his time on unlikely 'marks.'..........................It may not have even been about sex at all.¿ I don't know which would be scarier, but either is potentially dangerous.¿¿ Mindlessly arrogant, narcissistic and egotistical is really the UPPER end of the spectrum of flaws he could have, the more I consider it.¿¿ I would report him as a likely scammer / con artist.¿ If it turns out he's only a controlling sex deviant, you can send an apology.
Thank you, Tink! Something tells me he gets the quality of women he seeks! ; ) The fact that he was being a spokesman for every man on this site is what annoyed me the most.
Thank you, Tink! Something tells me he gets the quality of women he seeks! ; ) The fact that he was being a spokesman for every man on this site is what annoyed me the most.
Simone, I'm fabulous, thank you! : ) Don't hold back, sweetie, tell us how you really feel! LOL ::I share your sentiments::
Sarah, yes, it was his attempt but a poor one at that. He told me his approach has been working for him but he failed to notice it didn't work on me. : )
Niceguy, that you are! Let me know when you are in PA and I'd love to join you for a drink! : )
Convers, I'm not worried but thank you! This world and site is full of more than just a++holes; we have con-artists, rapists, liars, cheats, and freaks ... just to name a few. I prefer gentlemen who have integrity and know how to treat a lady; my intuition tells me you are one of them! : )
I created this blog to start a dialog about the topic; I'll let you all decide what you consider to be the topic. Thank you for sharing and I hope others decide to join in as well.
PEACE @->--
Simone, I'm fabulous, thank you! : ) Don't hold back, sweetie, tell us how you really feel! LOL ::I share your sentiments::
Sarah, yes, it was his attempt but a poor one at that. He told me his approach has been working for him but he failed to notice it didn't work on me. : )
Niceguy, that you are! Let me know when you are in PA and I'd love to join you for a drink! : )
Convers, I'm not worried but thank you! This world and site is full of more than just a++holes; we have con-artists, rapists, liars, cheats, and freaks ... just to name a few. I prefer gentlemen who have integrity and know how to treat a lady; my intuition tells me you are one of them! : )
I created this blog to start a dialog about the topic; I'll let you all decide what you consider to be the topic. Thank you for sharing and I hope others decide to join in as well.
Heaven,¿ ¿ Some are just born a++holes.¿ Don't worry about it. ¿ And Simone,¿ Almost all the money I made in my life I spent on hunting, fishing, liquor and women.¿ The rest I wasted.¿ :):):)¿ ¿ ¿
Quoting: Originally posted by SweetSimone I was asked by one gentelman how many "dates" I went on and when I told him that I basically just met men for a coffee at first to get to know them he told me that he prefers someone who is "sexually active" and that he steers clear of women who do not sleep around.
I really believe that alot of men today just want "sex" no matter wich way or from "what" source they get it and honestly (sorry to say) I truly think most "prefer" to be with men or children.
Men resent women who are feminin. They want to be "approached" or they want someone who is easy prey. They want it easy and they want it now. They want to bethe ones who are pampered and spoiled.
They claim to be multi millionares yet they want to spend nothing on the female and expect her to be "financially independent" so that they can spend that money on an extra luxurious lifetstyle for themselves...things like porn, prostitution , silk boxers and hair transplants..
They also seem to get jealuos and resentful if a waoman is more attractive than themselves. when it comes to serious relationships, they prefer someone masculine who will take care of them.
Get with the times? I supposed that means that I would have to dress like a street corner drag queen, slap on a mustache and call myself "Lance."
WELL...all that being said, how have you been Heaven? LOL
Quoting SweetSimone:
I was asked by one gentelman how many "dates" I went on and when I told him that I basically just met men for a coffee at first to get to know them he told me that he prefers someone who is "sexually active" and that he steers clear of women who do not sleep around.
I really believe that alot of men today just want "sex" no matter wich way or from "what" source they get it and honestly (sorry to say) I truly think most "prefer" to be with men or children.
Men resent women who are feminin. They want to be "approached" or they want someone who is easy prey. They want it easy and they want it now. They want to bethe ones who are pampered and spoiled.
They claim to be multi millionares yet they want to spend nothing on the female and expect her to be "financially independent" so that they can spend that money on an extra luxurious lifetstyle for themselves...things like porn, prostitution , silk boxers and hair transplants..
They also seem to get jealuos and resentful if a waoman is more attractive than themselves. when it comes to serious relationships, they prefer someone masculine who will take care of them.
Get with the times? I supposed that means that I would have to dress like a street corner drag queen, slap on a mustache and call myself "Lance."
WELL...all that being said, how have you been Heaven? LOL
Heaven,¿ ¿ Some are just born a++holes.¿ Don't worry about it. ¿ And Simone,¿ Almost all the money I made in my life I spent on hunting, fishing, liquor and women.¿ The rest I wasted.¿ :):):)¿ ¿ ¿
Simone, CLEARLY, you have been meeting the wrong men !!!
Quoting: Originally posted by SweetSimone I was asked by one gentelman how many "dates" I went on and when I told him that I basically just met men for a coffee at first to get to know them he told me that he prefers someone who is "sexually active" and that he steers clear of women who do not sleep around.
I really believe that alot of men today just want "sex" no matter wich way or from "what" source they get it and honestly (sorry to say) I truly think most "prefer" to be with men or children.
Men resent women who are feminin. They want to be "approached" or they want someone who is easy prey. They want it easy and they want it now. They want to bethe ones who are pampered and spoiled.
They claim to be multi millionares yet they want to spend nothing on the female and expect her to be "financially independent" so that they can spend that money on an extra luxurious lifetstyle for themselves...things like porn, prostitution , silk boxers and hair transplants..
They also seem to get jealuos and resentful if a waoman is more attractive than themselves. when it comes to serious relationships, they prefer someone masculine who will take care of them.
Get with the times? I supposed that means that I would have to dress like a street corner drag queen, slap on a mustache and call myself "Lance."
WELL...all that being said, how have you been Heaven? LOL
Quoting SweetSimone:
I was asked by one gentelman how many "dates" I went on and when I told him that I basically just met men for a coffee at first to get to know them he told me that he prefers someone who is "sexually active" and that he steers clear of women who do not sleep around.
I really believe that alot of men today just want "sex" no matter wich way or from "what" source they get it and honestly (sorry to say) I truly think most "prefer" to be with men or children.
Men resent women who are feminin. They want to be "approached" or they want someone who is easy prey. They want it easy and they want it now. They want to bethe ones who are pampered and spoiled.
They claim to be multi millionares yet they want to spend nothing on the female and expect her to be "financially independent" so that they can spend that money on an extra luxurious lifetstyle for themselves...things like porn, prostitution , silk boxers and hair transplants..
They also seem to get jealuos and resentful if a waoman is more attractive than themselves. when it comes to serious relationships, they prefer someone masculine who will take care of them.
Get with the times? I supposed that means that I would have to dress like a street corner drag queen, slap on a mustache and call myself "Lance."
WELL...all that being said, how have you been Heaven? LOL
Simone, CLEARLY, you have been meeting the wrong men !!!
The guy is a complete jerk. You are a nice lady and out of his league. So his last pathetic attempt was to label you as a prude.
This site accumulates all sorts. This site is not for people just looking for a one night stand. This site is for everyone. This site is for those who are looking for a special person in their life, marriage, friend etc. There are nice people out there. So don't loose faith but I wouldn't hold your breath for finding a match on this site.
sarah :-)
The guy is a complete jerk. You are a nice lady and out of his league. So his last pathetic attempt was to label you as a prude.
This site accumulates all sorts. This site is not for people just looking for a one night stand. This site is for everyone. This site is for those who are looking for a special person in their life, marriage, friend etc. There are nice people out there. So don't loose faith but I wouldn't hold your breath for finding a match on this site.
